What’s It About

It Started With A Promise:


Peter and David circa 1983

My brother David died in November 1992 from the complications of AIDS.  I was with him at the moment he took his last breath.  It was an incredible event to witness and be part of.  The weeks leading up to his death I describe as the “richest” days of my life, I have never felt so alive.

David and I had a great relationship but spent most of our adult lives living far apart.  He lived in New York City and I lived in the Pacific Northwest.  He was a gay man, a multi-talented entertainer who performed on stages all over the world.  I was a married straight-guy, a stay-at-home dad with three kids at the time of his death.  Talk about living in different worlds! AIDS brought a sense of urgency to our relationship.  We spent a great deal of time together in his final years.

When he died I made a promise to myself … one day I would tell the story of his remarkable life and even more remarkable death.   I didn’t know how, or when, or in what form this story would take, but I knew for certain that one day I would do it… I had no choice, it had to be told.  

Became a Project:

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The David Serko Project Facebook page

As the twentieth anniversary of his death approached in 2012 I was finally ready to make good on that promise by starting “The David Serko Project”.   My goal was to find people who knew David, I wanted to hear their stories in an effort to learn more about my brother’s life.  

Using Facebook I found over 100 people who knew him at some point in his life, most I didn’t know.  The scope and depth  of what I learned was remarkable.   In addition to sharing stories both large and small people shared photos, video, and audio recordings.

One thing became clear, David was loved and adored by all who knew him.

And Then A Crazy Idea:


Cider Mill Playhouse – July 2014

A year into the Project I realized I needed to share what I had learned during Project and talk about what happened during the course of my brother’s illness and the final weeks of his life.  I decided I had to write something that I could get up on stage and perform myself, I wanted to create a theatrical experience and immerse myself in my brother’s world.  I had never written for the stage nor performed before, never even taken a drama class in school.  Now, that is what I would call a crazy idea!

Within a year I completed a first draft of a script.  Pushing ahead, in the Fall of 2013 I booked two performances at a small theater in Tacoma, WA for early February 2014.  Rehearsal began in December 2013 with my friend Brian Desmond as director.

The play opened February 1, 2014 to good audience reaction and critical review.   In July of 2014 I performed the play in my hometown at “The Cider Mill Playhouse”, a theater my brother performed in many times in his late teens and early twenties.  Many of his friends who participated in The Project on Facebook were in the audience along with my parents and siblings.  It was a magical evening!  See photos from that performance.

The evolution of the title…


David on tour with A Chorus Line in Italy -1987

From the start I wanted to call the play “My Brother Is Dead And Other Funny Stories”.
It was catchy and a bit irreverent, perfect I thought for dealing with a subject that might be off-putting to audiences.  Before I had written a word I had created a series of podcasts of the same name.   The podcasts were done extemporaneously, I just started to tell some of the stories I had been thinking about in the years since David died.  I soon realized I had stories to tell and I could tell them in an entertaining and often fun way.   The podcasts became the foundation of the script.

I would later change  the play title to: My Brother Kissed Mark Zuckerberg after I had a dream David kissed Mark Zuckerberg founder of Facebook. Since Facebook played such a big role in the Project it seemed an appropriate title.


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